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Confused by "Giri-choco"? Skip the stress and treat yourself to "Gohobi"!

Are you feeling stressed about Japan's unique "Giri-choco" (Obligation Chocolate) culture? Valentine's Day in Japan is vastly different from Western customs. How is it celebrated in your home country?

From my experience working with people from Western countries, men usually give flowers or special gifts to women. But as you know, in Japan, it’s the opposite—women are expected to give presents to men!

If this cultural pressure is stressing you out, why not skip the obligation this year? Instead, I recommend practicing a wonderful Japanese concept called "Gohobi". "Gohobi" simply means "a reward for yourself" for all your hard work.

It doesn't have to be chocolate. It could be a luxurious Afternoon Tea or cake at a hotel. Maybe some refreshing Craft Beer by the bay. Or, since we are in my hometown of Yokohama, some delicious Dim Sum in Chinatown!

Japanese Valentine's Day is often deeply connected to the culture of "Kuuki wo Yomu" (Reading the Air). You might feel the pressure of: "Oh, they gave me something, so I MUST give something back." While this spirit of reciprocity is a beautiful part of Japanese culture, I know it can be exhausting for those coming from abroad.

So this year, instead of worrying about others, do something that makes your own heart and body happy. Eat delicious food, laugh a lot, and have a wonderful weekend!